Understanding Hormones: A Guide to Balancing Your Body Naturally

From Band-Aid Solutions to True Healing

Understanding hormones is something I didn’t even have a grasp on until I was in my 30s—and I’m a woman!

I grew up in an era where every symptom was treated with a prescription. When I began passing out from period cramps as a young teen, I was prescribed the classic Zoloft and birth control combo at just 13 years old.

At the time, I didn’t question it. But over the years, I began to see how much those “quick fixes” disconnected me from my body’s natural rhythms. My mood, energy, digestion, and hormones were all over the place—and the deeper truth was that my body wasn’t being supported, it was being suppressed.

Healing began when I started to view food as medicine, listened to my body’s messages, and focused on rebuilding my foundations—digestion, blood sugar, mineral balance, and nourishment.

That’s why I created The Hormone Guide—to help you understand your own hormonal rhythm and learn how to support it naturally.

🌸 The Female Cycle: Your Built-In Health Blueprint

For decades, women have been taught to hide or “fix” their menstrual cycles. But menstruation is not an inconvenience—it’s a vital sign and one of our body’s most powerful detox pathways.

Your cycle isn’t just about fertility—it’s a window into your metabolism, mood, thyroid, adrenal function, and overall vitality.

Let’s break down the four key phases of a healthy 28-day cycle (though every woman’s rhythm is unique).

🩸Menstrual Phase (Days 1–5): The Reset + Release

This is the time your body sheds the uterine lining—a natural monthly detox and renewal.

Energy: You may feel tired, emotional, or inward. Honor rest.

Supportive Movement: Gentle yoga, walking, stretching, breathwork.

Nourish With:

  • Iron-rich foods: grass-fed beef, liver, spinach, beets
  • Vitamin C: citrus, bell peppers, strawberries
  • Magnesium: pumpkin seeds, avocado, cacao
  • Warming foods: soups, stews, bone broth

Helpful Supplements: Magnesium glycinate, B-Complex, zinc, trace minerals, omega-3s, and herbs like cramp bark or arnica.

💡 Think of this as your inner winter—a time to slow down and restore.

 🌱 Follicular Phase (Days 6–13): Rebuild, Renew, Rise

As estrogen starts to rise, your energy and creativity return. This is a time of growth and expansion—your body is preparing for ovulation.

Energy: Optimistic, social, productive, mentally clear.

Supportive Movement: Strength training, dance, hiking, or HIIT (as tolerated).

Nourish With:

  • Cruciferous veggies (broccoli, cauliflower, cabbage) for estrogen detox
  • Fermented foods (sauerkraut, kefir) for gut health
  • Light, vibrant meals—salads with protein, lemon water, broths
  • Liver-supporting foods—beets, parsley, dandelion greens

Helpful Supplements: B-Complex, zinc, probiotics, liver-supporting herbs like milk thistle or NAC.

🌸 This is your inner spring—time to create, plan, and say yes to new ideas.

🔥 Ovulatory Phase (Days 14–17): Your Peak Power

A mature egg is released, estrogen peaks, and testosterone gives you a boost of energy, libido, and motivation.

Energy: High! You’re glowing, magnetic, and confident.

Supportive Movement: High-intensity workouts, group classes, or heavy lifting.

Nourish With:

  • Bright fruits and fiber-rich veggies
  • Zinc + selenium foods: oysters, Brazil nuts, pumpkin seeds
  • Lean proteins and healthy fats for hormone production
  • Herbs like cilantro, parsley, and lemon for gentle liver detox

Helpful Supplements: Vitamin C, zinc, selenium, omega-3s, and glutathione/NAC.

☀️ This is your inner summer—embrace social connection and outward expression.

🌙  Luteal Phase (Days 18–28): Slow Down and Support

After ovulation, progesterone becomes the star. It calms the nervous system, regulates sleep, and balances estrogen—but stress, under-eating, or poor detox can deplete it.

Energy: May dip—focus on grounding, rest, and stable blood sugar.

Supportive Movement: Strength training early, then gentle yoga or walking.

Nourish With:

  • Root veggies and complex carbs (sweet potatoes, beets, oats)
  • Magnesium and B6-rich foods (pumpkin seeds, turkey, bananas)
  • Omega-3 fats (salmon, walnuts, chia seeds)
  • Comforting, warming meals—stews, roasted veggies, soups

Helpful Supplements: Magnesium, B6, omega-3s, Vitex (if needed), and adaptogens like ashwagandha or rhodiola.

🌾 This is your inner autumn—a time to reflect, rest, and release.

🧬 Men Have Hormones Too

While women experience cyclical hormone shifts, men experience a daily testosterone rhythm. Their hormones benefit from the same nutrient-dense, mineral-rich foods that support vitality and metabolism.

Foods that Boost Testosterone:

  • Zinc-rich: Oysters, red meat, poultry, raw dairy, nuts/seeds
  • Magnesium-rich: Spinach, quinoa, almonds, avocado
  • Iodine-rich: Seaweed, sea moss, beef liver, eggs, kelp

Lifestyle Support:

  • Prioritize protein and minerals daily
  • Manage stress (excess cortisol depletes testosterone)
  • Move often, lift weights, and sleep deeply

🧠 Whole-food supplements like beef liver, magnesium, and trace minerals can make a big difference in energy, libido, and mood.

💛 The Bottom Line: Your Hormones Are Talking—Listen

Your symptoms are messages, not malfunctions.

When you learn to work with your body instead of against it, you unlock balance, energy, and emotional stability.

Hormones aren’t the enemy—they’re the rhythm your body dances to every day.

So whether you’re cycling, trying to conceive, postpartum, or simply wanting to feel like yourself again—start by nourishing your foundations.

Because healing happens when you reconnect with your body. 🌿

Kate Zink, FNTP
Functional Nutritional Therapy Practitioner | Founder of Chronically Holistic

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Be “Too Much” in a World That Prescribes Chaos

Being “too much” is what finally led me to health—and—and it’s backed by science.

Chronically Holistic

For years, I lived by elimination—cutting out foods, habits, and even parts of myself. But healing didn’t truly begin until I shifted to addition—intentionally nurturing what my nervous system needed: safety, faith, nourishment, and calm.

Scientific research now confirms what holistic practitioners have long observed: early-life stressors—from complex births and environmental toxins to prolonged insecurity—can deeply impact long-term health. A landmark review shows that those exposed to major psychological stressors in early life face elevated rates of chronic diseases and diminished longevity PMC. Another investigation specifically links childhood adversity with increased risk of chronic illnesses across adulthood ScienceDirect+1.

Even on a neurobiological level, early-life stress alters brain development, particularly in circuits that govern stress response, emotion regulation, and memory. These changes in the prefrontal cortex, amygdala, hippocampus—and in stress-hormone pathways—can lead to heightened vulnerability across life BioMed Central.

I’ve been a nurse for 9 years, working primarily in emergency medicine with a focus on pediatrics. I entered this demanding field while still recovering—on multiple prescriptions, frequenting specialists, and healing from surgeries. Every day, I witnessed people in crisis, and I often minimized my own suffering in comparison.

But what goes on outside the hospital doors—in our homes—might matter even more. Health is built every day, not just in moments of extreme illness. Diet, stress coping, environmental quality, and resources are foundational—but often undervalued elements.

Consider sleep health, for instance. Environmental factors—like air pollution, noise, ambient light, and neighborhood safety—play a significant role in shaping sleep patterns and disorders, especially in socioeconomically disadvantaged communities PMCAJMC.

On a broader scale, the social determinants of health—poverty, education, employment, and living conditions—have a more substantial impact on outcomes than clinical care alone ASPE.

Even nutrition doesn’t operate in a vacuum. A recent study examining reproductive-age adults revealed that lifestyle patterns (diet quality, scheduling, eating behaviors) are strongly tied to social factors like rural vs. urban living, employment status, and daily routines MDPI.


Why This Matters

  • Early trauma isn’t just emotional—it’s biological, reshaping your brain, hormones, and immune system in ways that last a lifetime.
  • True health isn’t born in ER rooms—it’s nurtured daily through safety, rest, nutrition, clean environments, and meaningful connection.
  • You aren’t inherently broken and don’t need to be medication-deficient—you deserve access to basic human rights: nourishing food, fresh air, trust, and community.

Next Steps: Nourishing the Nervous System

Healing isn’t just about avoiding harm—it’s about providing the body with what it truly needs. The Emotion Code reminds us that trapped emotions and unprocessed stressors can keep the nervous system locked in “fight or flight.” Pairing emotional release techniques with nutritional support builds resilience at the cellular and emotional level.

Foundational Nutritional Support

  • Magnesium-rich foods (leafy greens, pumpkin seeds, avocado) — critical for calming the nervous system, relaxing muscles, and reducing anxiety.
  • Omega-3 fatty acids (wild salmon, sardines, flaxseed, walnuts) — shown to support mood regulation, reduce inflammation, and stabilize neuronal membranes.
  • B vitamins (grass-fed liver, eggs, beef, dark leafy greens) — essential for neurotransmitter synthesis and energy production.
  • Mineral-dense foods (bone broth, sea salt, kelp, beets) — restore electrolytes, supporting adrenal function and overall resilience.
  • Whole-food vitamin C sources (citrus, kiwi, bell peppers, acerola cherry) — vital for adrenal repair and nervous system balance

Nervous System Practices

  • Heart-focused breathing — slowing and deepening the breath signals safety to the vagus nerve.
  • Grounding foods + grounding habits — root vegetables and mindful movement help the body feel safe and supported.
  • Releasing trapped emotions (The Emotion Code technique) — identifying and processing unresolved emotional energies allows the body to shift out of chronic stress.
  • Daily safety rituals — creating a calm environment, practicing gratitude, and limiting toxic inputs (chemicals, negative media, processed food) reinforces stability.

The Takeaway

Your nervous system doesn’t need more stimulation—it needs restoration. True resilience is built when emotional release, nutrient density, and nervous system support come together.

✨ Ready to uncover what your body truly needs? Let’s work 1:1 to identify your deficiencies and support your nervous system. Connect with me here: chronicallyholistic.com/how-to-work-with-me

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Product Review: Earthmeal

Earthmeal Organics Review – A Nourishing Start or Just Another Bowl?

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As a Functional Nutritional Therapy Practitioner, I always look at packaged foods through a lens of bio-individuality, nutrient density, and how a product supports foundational health pillars—digestion, blood sugar balance, mineral status, and beyond. So when I came across Earthmeal Oatmeal, I knew I had to dig into the label and test it for myself.

Here’s my take on whether it deserves a spot in your holistic kitchen:


🥣 The Ingredients: First Impressions Matter

Earthmeal prides itself on using clean, whole food organic ingredients—and that shows. The base blend includes:

  • Organic gluten-free rolled oats
  • Healing Herbs: Maca, Ashwagandha, Reishi, Ginger, Lion’s Mane
  • Seeds: Ground flax, Heirloom pumpkin seeds
  • Vitamin C: Camu camu, Goji Berries
  • Natural Sugars: Coconut sugar, figs and dates
  • Himalayan salt for electrolyte replacement and absorption

What I like:

  • No industrial seed oils, natural flavors, or synthetic vitamins (important for my MTHFR folks).
  • Fiber-rich seeds like chia and flax support digestion and hormone balance.
  • Coconut milk powder adds nourishing fats that help slow carb absorption—a win for blood sugar.

What I watch for:

  • Even natural sugars like dried fruit or maple sugar can spike blood glucose in some sensitive clients. Pairing this oatmeal with added protein or fat (think: pasture-raised collagen, a spoon of almond butter, or raw milk) can help blunt that spike.

🔬 Macronutrient Breakdown (per serving):

(Based on Earthmeal Blueberry flavor)

  • Calories: 280
  • Fat: 10g (from coconut, flax, chia)
  • Carbs: 36g (5g fiber, 9g sugar)
  • Protein: 6g
  • Sodium: 180mg
  • Calcium, Magnesium, Iron: trace amounts (from chia, oats, and Himalayan salt)

My take:
This is a carb-forward breakfast, but the added seeds and coconut fat help give it more staying power. I’d recommend increasing the protein—especially for blood sugar-sensitive or adrenal-fatigued individuals—by adding 1–2 scoops of protein or serving it alongside eggs. I used Promix chocolate in my own.


🌿 Holistic Highlights

Supports Digestion: The combination of soluble and insoluble fiber supports healthy motility and feeds beneficial gut microbes. Great for anyone looking to gently nudge sluggish digestion.

Blood Sugar Friendly (with tweaks): Without a protein or fat addition, the carb load may be too much for some. That said, it’s far better than instant oats or cereal thanks to the balance of whole food fats and fiber.

Clean Ingredients: Minimal processing and organic sourcing (where applicable) make this a solid grab-and-go option for travel, postpartum, or busy mornings.


✨ Who I’d Recommend This For:

  • Busy parents or professionals needing a clean, quick option
  • Clients rebuilding digestion who don’t tolerate heavy breakfasts
  • Postpartum moms needing mineral-rich, comforting food
  • Clients on elimination diets (it’s dairy-free, gluten-free, and soy-free)

❌ Who Might Need to Skip or Modify:

  • Those on very low-carb, ketogenic, or carnivore diets
  • Clients with Candida or high blood sugar who react to fruit sugars
  • Anyone needing more robust protein first thing in the morning, I recommend to try to it eat along side a meat!

🌟 Final Verdict

4.5/5 stars
I didn’t love it first taste but am now OBSESSED! Earthmeal Oatmeal is thoughtfully crafted and aligned with many holistic nutrition principles. With a little personalization—especially adding protein—it can be a nourishing, grounding way to start the day. It’s not a one-size-fits-all solution, but it’s definitely a step up from conventional oatmeal.

Pro Tip:
If you’re looking to level it up, try this:
➡️ Stir in collagen peptides + raw milk or kefir
➡️ Top with mineral-rich sea salt, cinnamon, and a spoon of tahini for added copper, magnesium, and fat.

Use the code: HOLISTICKATE for an additional 25% off 💖

The Calcium Shell & Digestion: When Protection Blocks Healing

The Calcium Shell & Digestion: When Protection Blocks Healing
By Chronically Holistic

I’m a raw milk-drinking gal now—but before I got here, I had to break up a massive calcium shell.

For those unfamiliar, a calcium shell shows up when calcium levels are cellularly high—typically over 165 mg% on a Hair Tissue Mineral Analysis (HTMA). It’s one of the most common patterns I see in my practice, and it’s a major roadblock to healing that’s often missed or misunderstood.

If you’re stuck in your health journey despite doing “all the right things,” this might be the hidden culprit.

This blog is dedicated to unpacking what a calcium shell is, how it forms, and how we begin to gently break it down—so the body can move from survival mode back into a place of safety, connection, and real healing.

I believe the body always acts in service of survival—even when those protective mechanisms begin to interfere with your ability to heal and thrive. One of the most telling signs of long-standing emotional stress and unresolved trauma in the body is a mineral pattern known as the calcium shell.

This pattern can be detected through a Hair Tissue Mineral Analysis (HTMA) and is a clear signal that the body is in a chronic state of overwhelm. If you’ve tried every healing protocol under the sun but still feel stuck—fatigued, foggy, disconnected—the calcium shell may be at the root.


What Is a Calcium Shell?

A calcium shell is a biochemical coping mechanism—a literal mineral shield that the body builds when it no longer feels safe. It’s most commonly the result of prolonged emotional stress or unresolved trauma, and it shows up as extremely high calcium levels on an HTMA (typically above 165 mg%).

Calcium is a naturally calming mineral, and in a high-stress environment, the body may use it to numb emotional pain and buffer itself from outside threats. Instead of depositing calcium where it belongs (in the bones and teeth), it begins to store it in soft tissues—like the joints, kidneys, arteries, brain, and even the thyroid.

This does not mean dairy or calcium is bad. It means you are not properly getting the calcium into the cells due to stress and depletions. I use diet, supplements and lifestyle adjustments to help “break” the calcium shell.


Emotional and Physical Signs of a Calcium Shell

People with a calcium shell often describe feeling emotionally flatlined or “frozen.” Symptoms may include:

  • Apathy, disconnection, numbness
  • Depression or low motivation
  • Brain fog
  • Withdrawal or isolation
  • Chronic fatigue
  • Joint and muscle pain
  • Cold hands and feet
  • Constipation and sluggish digestion
  • Hormonal imbalances

Physically, this misdirected calcium can contribute to or worsen conditions like:

  • Osteoporosis or osteopenia
  • Fibromyalgia
  • Hypothyroidism
  • Arthritis
  • Kidney stones or bone spurs
  • Heart disease (due to arterial calcification)
  • Poor dental health or premature graying

In essence, your body is trying to help you cope—but in doing so, it slows everything down. Metabolism, mood, motility… all become compromised in this “freeze” state.


How Does a Calcium Shell Develop?

The most common drivers of a calcium shell are:

  • Chronic, unrelenting stress
  • Unresolved emotional trauma
  • Incorrect supplementation (especially with calcium and vitamin D)
  • Excess dietary calcium from fortified foods or misguided supplementation for bone health

Many people unknowingly worsen a calcium shell by taking multivitamins or calcium supplements, especially when trying to reverse bone loss. But if calcium isn’t being directed properly—without adequate co-factors like vitamin K2 (MK-7), vitamin A, and iodine—it ends up where it shouldn’t be.


Healing the Calcium Shell: A Slow, Gentle Process

Breaking up a calcium shell requires time, safety, and support. As the shell begins to dissolve, long-buried emotions may resurface. This is why working with a trained practitioner who understands the emotional and biochemical layers of healing is essential.

We begin by gently supporting the body’s ability to redirect calcium into the bones. This often involves:

  • Supplementing with vitamin K2 (MK-7)—without vitamin D
  • Supporting detox pathways and drainage
  • Addressing emotional root causes through trauma-informed practices
  • Making dietary shifts to rebalance minerals
  • Slowly reintroducing a sense of safety into the nervous system

As the body unravels the protective calcium shell, you may notice temporary detox symptoms like joint pain, mood swings, or migraines. These are signs the body is mobilizing stored materials and emotions. This work is deep, and it requires your gentleness and patience.


Awareness Is the First Step

Most people think more calcium is always better, but that’s only true if your body is placing it where it belongs. If you feel like something deeper is keeping you stuck in your healing journey, it may be time to consider HTMA testing.

Unlike blood work, which gives a snapshot of a single day, the HTMA provides a three-month view of mineral trends in the body. It not only tells us how much calcium is present, but also where the body is directing it—and whether it’s time to gently dismantle the shell.


Ready to Learn More?

At Chronically Holistic, I offer HTMA testing as a standalone option or as part of a multi-month healing program. If you’re curious whether a calcium shell may be holding back your progress—or want to explore how stress and mineral imbalance might be playing a role in your symptoms—let’s talk.

Reach out via our contact page or email us directly at ChronicallyHolistic@gmail.com


You were built to heal. Sometimes, you just need the right map—and someone who knows how to read it.

How to Regulate the Nervous System 101.

I don’t know about you, but I didn’t really learn how to regulate my nervous system until I was a grown adult. We have all heard the saying, “you cannot pour from an empty cup,” well you also can’t function properly if your nervous system is fried.

Your nervous system is your body’s command center. It influences everything from your hormones, immune system, digestion, mood, sleep, and much more. That’s why many are turning to nervous system regulation to improve their health and happiness.

What is the Autonomic Nervous System?

The autonomic nervous system (ANS) is part of your nervous system that controls involuntary processes like breathing, heart rate, and digestion.

There are two divisions of the autonomic nervous system:

  • The sympathetic nervous system: Also known as the ‘fight or flight’ response, this division mobilizes your body’s resources to respond to stressors. Basically, this system acts as your gas pedal.
  • The parasympathetic nervous system: Nicknamed ‘rest and digest’ mode, this division promotes relaxation and helps you maintain a sense of calm. This system serves as your brake pedal.

Both systems are important. The sympathetic nervous system helps you spring into action when you encounter stress — and the parasympathetic nervous system helps you recover and recharge.

What is Nervous System Dysregulation?

Nervous system dysregulation is when the two systems get out of balance. This can happen due to a poor diet, stress, trauma, overwork, poor sleep, or toxin exposure. This is where I come in to help determine the stressor.

If the sympathetic nervous system becomes dominant, stress hormones shoot up. This can lead to anxiety and agitation.

On the flip side, if the parasympathetic nervous system becomes overly active, you may feel lethargic and apathetic.

Healthy Nervous System Regulation

A healthy nervous system is flexible. Meaning, it shifts from survival mode (sympathetic activation) back to safety (parasympathetic activation) with relative ease.

The trouble is, between bills, traffic, and overpacked schedules, modern life throws stress at us every day. On top of that, thanks to our fast-paced lives, most of us don’t carve out enough time to rest and recharge.

No wonder nervous system dysregulation has become the norm! Luckily, there are many simple things you can do to restore balance to your nervous system.

Nervous system regulation is the ability to calm your nervous system.

I have tools listed below. Each one sends a safety signal to your brain to bring your nervous system back into balance.

I use hair tissue and mineral analysis in my practice to help determine what minerals you are in need of and what lifestyle and metabolism fits you.

Tools to Balance your Nervous System:

Tool #1 Mindfulness:

Awareness is the first step to changing anything, including your nervous system. Your thoughts, emotions, physical sensations, and responses to external stimuli can all trigger stress.

The more you stay in the present moment, the more you notice the subtle signs of stress. And the earlier you catch it, the easier it is to come back into balance.

Therapy is an amazing tool here to help you challenge your mindfulness and nutriotional goals. Here is a DIY list:

  • Observe your thoughts. Take note anytime you’re ruminating about the past or worrying about the future. Notice your thoughts without judgment and gently bring yourself back to the present moment.
  • Engage your 5 senses. When you’re going about your day, tune into what you see, hear, feel, smell, and taste in each moment.
  • Mindful eating. Eat meals free of distractions. Put all your attention on your food, appreciating the subtle nuances of flavors.
  • Try single tasking. Resist the urge to multitask and do one task at a time, whether that’s driving, doing the dishes, or sipping a cup of coffee.

Practicing mindfulness helps you become aware of your thoughts, emotions, sensations, and surroundings in the present moment, without judgment. That way, you can build awareness of the current state of your nervous system and know when to use your tools.

Tool #2: Breathwork

When stressed, your breathing becomes shallow and fast. But when relaxed, breathing is slow and deep.

The good news is, you can consciously change your breath to influence your nervous system. Taking slow, deep breaths calms your nervous system and sends signals to your brain that you’re safe.

The following are a few breathwork techniques that can help regulate your nervous system. Play around with them anytime you feel anxious, worried, or restless.

Breathing Techniques:

  • Box Breathing: Inhale slowly through your nose for 4 counts and hold your breath in for 4 counts. Then exhale slowly through your nose for 4 counts and hold your breath out for 4 counts. Repeat for 10 or more rounds. Here’s a video demo.
  • Physiological sigh: Popularized by neuroscientist Dr. Andrew Huberman and also known as cyclic breathing. Take two deep inhales through your nose, followed by one long slow exhale through the mouth. Here’s a guided walk-though.
  • Alternate Nostril Breathing: As the name suggests, this yoga technique involves breathing through one nostril at a time. It’s said to balance the right and left hemispheres of the brain. This video will show you how to do it.
  • Belly Breathing: Also known as diaphragmatic breathing, this breath pattern stimulates the vagus nerve to help trigger the relaxation response. Breathe slowly through your nose, letting the air go deep into your belly.

Tool #3: Movement:

Exercise has endless benefits for your physical and mental health. It burns off stress, relieves muscle tension, boosts your mood, and improves sleep qualityall of which benefit your nervous system.

Just don’t overdo it. Intense exercise without enough recovery time can add more stress into the mix. So if you’ve been dealing with chronic stress for some time, stick to light to moderate exercise for now. I use your hair test here to help guide you what exercise would benefit you.

Here are some of the best exercises to help regulate your nervous system:

  • Mindful Movement: Yoga, tai chi, and chi gong are all examples of mindful movement that help calm the nervous system. These practices help you slow your breath, tune into your body, and release tension. Try them anytime you need to instill some inner calm. If you’re new to mindful movement, here’s a beginner’s yoga class to get you started.
  • Light to Moderate Exercise: Walking, dancing, biking, swimming, jogging, or hiking all help you get in your body and let go of stress. Not to mention, they improve circulation and trigger the release of endorphins, your body’s natural feel-good chemicals. So the next time you’re feeling edgy, go for a walk or put on a playlist and dance it out.

Tool #4 Nature (my favorite)

Nature can be incredibly calming to the nervous system.

In fact, forest bathing (aka spending time immersed in natural settings), is shown to lower your blood pressure, heart rate, and levels of the stress hormone cortisol.

Try to squeeze in outdoor time any chance you can. Garden, go for a hike, hit a local park, or simply sip a cup of tea on your back porch and listen to the birds. Your nervous system will thank you.

What is grounding?

Grounding, also known as earthing, is the practice of making direct contact with the Earth. This connects you with the electrical charge of the Earth’s surface, which can, in turn, help ground your nervous system.

Grounding has been shown to reduce inflammation, ease stress, relieve pain, improve sleep, and much more. Best, of all, it’s free and easy to do!

Here are a few ways to practice grounding:

  • Walk on the grass barefoot
  • Lie on the ground
  • Garden
  • Take a walk on the beach or play in the sand
  • Submerge your body in a natural body of water
  • Try a grounding tool like earthing shoes or an earthing mat

Tool #5: Vagal Toning:

Stimulating this Vagal nerve helps you feel relaxed in a healthy parasympathetic mode. I enjoy dry brushing on the back of your vagal nerve behind your neck or sacral area.

We can’t all afford spa days, but here are some affordable at home oprions:

  • Singing, humming & gargling: The vagus nerve is connected to your vocal cords. Anytime your vocal cords vibrate, it activates your vagus nerve. So if you needed another excuse for some carpool karoake, there you have it! If singing isn’t your thing, humming and gargling can have the same effect.
  • Laughter: When you have a good laugh, it activates your diaphragm, which stimulates your vagus nerve. Laughter also reduces anxiety, boosts your mood. and strengthens your immune system. So look for opportunities to laugh whenever you can. Watch funny movies or TV shows, hang out with funny friends, or read funny books.
  • Cold water therapy: Exposing your body to cold water stimulates the vagus nerve. And you don’t have to do a full-on ice bath to see benefits! Just splash your face or end your shower cold.

Tip #6: Somatics

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When your nervous system is dysregulated, it’s easy to get stuck in your head. Somatic practices help pull you back into your body. That way, you can pick up on stress and tension before it gets out of hand. Here are a few somatic tools that may help:

Physical touch: Physical touch eases stress and helps you feel relaxed. Anytime you get skin to skin contact, whether that’s through hugging, cuddling, holding hands, or enjoying a massage, it triggers the release of oxytocin, the “love hormone” that promotes feeling of well-being. As an added bonus, when you connect with someone in a regulated state, it helps shift YOU to a more regulated state too, through the power of co-regulation.

Emotional Freedom Technique: EFT, also known as “tapping,” is a somatic therapy technique that can help release physical and emotional tension. It involves tapping on certain acupoints while focusing on a negative thought or belief that’s causing you distress. Research suggests it can reduce stress and anxiety and even helps ease symptoms of PTSD. If you’re new to EFT, here’s a video to help you get started.

Making an appointment

As we all know, the healing journey isn’t just about addressing the physical—it’s also about regulating the nervous system. This is an area where many of us, including myself, get stuck. Understanding how to manage this vital aspect of health is transformative.

The connection between heavy metals, toxins, and low minerals is significant—and all of these factors impact your nervous system. By addressing these and practicing grounding and breathwork, your body will better handle life’s little emergencies with resilience and ease.

Talk therapy and Nutritional Therapy is located conveniently inside Grey Matter Counseling in Bel Air, MD. ‘

Services available by appointment only. Services Include: Talk Therapy, Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) at Grey Matter Counseling & Consulting, Coaching and Consulting, Nutritional Therapy and Massage.

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